At first you may hope that your spouse truly is frequently getting caught up working late and the stress from their job is unfortunately, but simply spilling over into other aspects of your life. You should try to be understanding and appreciative of that work effort after all, he/she is attempting to move up the career food chain as a means of improving your overall quality of life; so that you can move into a nicer home or go on vacations.
However, you feel that you’re missing part of the story. The communication isn’t the same. You don’t know the specifics and thats probably because you don’t have time to talk because he/she comes home late and leaves early and you’re interactions are in that half awake state of being. But, now you can’t help but start to suspect something when you don’t get a call or a text during lunch or he/she is always somewhat abruptly ending calls when you enter the room. Could your worst fear have become a reality is he/she cheating?
Now, you want to know the answers and you’re almost certainly wrong, right? But What if you’re not. You can’t come right out and ask, but you need to know and the longer it lingers the more its eating you up. So before you make a mistake and make an accusation you can’t take back, before the garbage hits the fan look into consoling a professional experienced private investigator that can get you the answers you need.