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Shifting The Expectations Of Marriage For Modern Times

The root causes for marriage have changed as society evolves. Traditionally marriage was a vehicle for stability and security. Couples joined forces to create a family and have children. The accustomed or standard roles of contribution for that unit would be that the man would provide the financial income necessary to live and maintain a home, food, clothing, etc. The woman would keep that home (cook, clean, grocery shop, take care of the children, and more).

While love was not necessarily absent from these circumstances, it wasn’t always the primary motivation either.

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5 Reasons to NOT Hire a Family Law Attorney

You’ve come to the emotionally difficult decision to dissolve what you hoped to be a lifelong commitment in marriage, with the dreaded “D” word divorce.

Now, your first instinct may be to treat the process like an impending battle, where friends and family are forced to pledge allegiance to your side, or they’ll be characterized as a sworn enemy. The words communication and compromise, previously pillars of one’s relationship, are traded in for cold-hearted, cutthroat tactics running through your emotively-fueled state as you aim to get the best resolution for yourself.

You might think you need a professional experienced in executing just that, a mercenary of sorts or as they are otherwise labeled a family law attorney. But, before you go through with hiring one, maybe you should consider avoiding a lawyer altogether based on our personal experience handling surveillance for divorce cases.

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Is Your Spouse Hiding Money from You?

Some hidden or undisclosed behavior may draw a red flag when it comes to one’s spouse and the prospect of infidelity.

Maybe they checkout from a communication perspective, ignoring or drifting off into their own world when you’re attempting to have a meaningful conversation.

In a similar vein, your spouse can also become difficult to reach when they’re away from home on a business trip.

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Splitting Finances in Your Marriage

There’s a saying in journalism regarding prioritizing stories that “if it bleeds, it leads.” This is true for money in any relationship, particularly in your marriage.

Finances are often a source of friction between spouses. These issues can stem from a disparity in income which then creates a divide.

If you are not constantly communicating, problems could be on the horizon.

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A Cheating Start

couple-arm-in-armDoes the circumstances in which something begins  dictate its future outcome? A philosophical question that deserves some further exploration particularly when it comes to relationships. In this case, if a relationship is born out of infidelity, is it bound for failure?

Now one’s first instinct may suggest that of course since infidelity is labeled a selfish and therefore negative action its offspring cannot in turn create a positive. However, those  quick gut judgements may become tempered by the details which led to the ultimate action. What if a person is in a poor unfulfilling relationship, one marred by poor communication, disinterest, substance or physical abuse etc. He/she knows that their current situation is not in their best interest, but at the same time remains locked in by a sense of obligation to the pleasant memories of the past, a fear of the unknown due to a sense of interdependence, the potential judgement/ humiliation of divorce etc. Read More→

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