As we age, finding new friends becomes increasingly complex, so it’s noteworthy when the opportunity presents itself.
This situation foreshadows my current predicament.
Witnessing live music is my preferred method of relaxation and entertainment, especially after a particularly challenging day or week. Like most activities, live music was greatly affected by the pandemic. I was more than ready to return to my favorite venues and enjoy the sounds when they came back.
Unfortunately, my spouse hasn’t been as enthusiastic about venturing back out, partly due to health concerns coupled with some homebody habits.
To catch the music I’ve missed, I’ve needed to go alone.
One night, I’m in line at the bar, between sets, and someone bumps into me. I spill some of my beer, but the woman quickly apologizes and buys me another.
A couple of weeks later, I see her at another show. She offers to buy a round this time, and we converse before the headliners hit the stage.
A night of music and a handful of drinks later, I’ve made a new friend. We exchange phone numbers and text about upcoming shows and new albums.
I didn’t bother telling my girlfriend because she’s the possessive type.
However, I highly anticipate the next show, knowing I have a companion and subsequently overindulge in the libations.
In my inebriated state, I used poor judgment and fooled around with this woman.
The kicker is she took pictures of us.
Despite knowing that I have a spouse, she believes we’re in a relationship, and she’s implying that if I don’t continue our weekend “hangs,” she’ll send my girlfriend the pictures.
What should I do?
