The majority of individuals entering into the commitment of marriage don’t bring an exit plan. Instead, you probably envision a hypothetical itinerary or strategy that includes career advancement, goals, having children, home-ownership, and meaningful joint decisions.
Ideally, the path you imagine will remain in sync with the life you’re living. So you work as hard as you can to continually progress in your desired profession, gaining confidence and experience along the way.
The beauty of success is that it creates opportunities and opens up doors, specifically to the house you both wanted or the fancier cars that you now drive.
The problem is that while you were waking up early to be the first one in the office, staying late meeting that deadline, and taking that business trip, you may have dropped the ball personally.
Work used to be the mechanism that allowed you to go out to restaurants, buy nice things to improve your home, take vacations to places you’ve only seen in movies.
Now work is your singular focus.
As a result, communication in your home has become very business-like, and the business in the bedroom is temporarily closed. When that happens, it’s human nature to seek romantic encounters outside of your relationship.
If you’re concerned that your spouse may be window-shopping elsewhere, contact our experienced private investigators, and we’ll help you get to the bottom of it.
